This article discusses Jennifer Aniston’s recent comments on her decision not to adopt, following her unsuccessful IVF treatment. The author, a former care leaver, expresses appreciation for Aniston’s honesty, arguing that this level of clarity is essential for the best outcomes for children. The article also touches on the complexities of adoption and fostering, suggesting that these should not be viewed as ‘second-best’ options to having biological children. The author commends Aniston for her frankness about her own feelings, asserting that this indicates a lack of selfishness.